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Butt Sex for Beginners â An Introductory Guide to AnalHave you ever watched someone jump right into CrossFit when theyâve spent their whole life being a couch potato ? They sweat a lot. They make noises that have nothing to do with pleasure. Their etat is off. They arenât really doing it right so theyâre more likely to hurt themselves. They tend to make a mess of themselves, then the next day theyâre sore and canât move. They didnât have a good time and donât really want to do it again, despite how many of their friends say they love it. Yeah, anal sex is a lot like that. You look at CrossFit and think âI can do jumping jacks and jump onto a box. â Or at least you think you can until you try it and discover thereâs a lot more to it than you originally thought. Anal is like that, too. Most people think, âHey, I have a butt ! Iâve been using it my whole life so I can totally figure out how to stick something up there. â Can you ? Sure. Will you enjoy it ? Probably not. Just like with CrossFit ( and life in general ), you need to prepare yourself or your ass will be sore and you wonât have a good time. If you want to dive into the deep end of anal sex, then you need to prepare yourself. This is a marathon, not a sprint; so itâll take some prep work before youâre ready to take the big D in the big B. Start SmallMost people brag about how big their member is, not how small it is. In the case of butt loving, however, smaller is usually better. But even if youâre lucky enough to have a guy with a tiny peen, itâs still probably not small enough, so start things off with a finger. Start by letting him âring your doorbellâ by pressing on the outside to start stimulating and relaxing you into the feeling of pressure on your back door. We suggest using lube because thereâs no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal sex. And by lube we mean lube â not spit, not lotion, actual lube. The butt doesnât lubricate itself naturally like the vagina, so when it gets aroused itâs still puckered. Once your body starts to relax to a little ding dong pressure, he or she can start lightly inserting the tip of their finger in. Err on the shallow side, as youâre about to encounter a whole lot of impressions youâve probably never had before. I know they all say itâs just the tipâŚbut really, start with the fingertip and just push in and out. You donât need to make a come hither motion with your finger; a simple in and out is usually good enough. All the nerve endings are in the anus, which is the port of entry to butt town, so only putting in your tip will feel better for the recipient. As youâre receiving their finger, try to relax, breathe, and use lots of lube. When in doubt, add lube ! If thatâs pleasurable you can start putting more of the finger inside. This shouldnât hurt, so if it does then you need to spend more time relaxing and trying other foreplay. Basically it should just feel like you need to poop â I know there is nothing terribly sexy about that, but thatâs what it feels like. It might not feel good to start, but with practice youâll hopefully have an A-Ha moment where suddenly it starts to feel goodâŚreally good ! Push It Real GoodAs he or she is putting their finger in, you can push against them. I know pushing seems counter intuitive, but the pushing can make it easier for their finger to go in. Plus when you relax, your little butthole kind of sucks their finger in like an anal vortex of pleasure. Oh yeahâŚadd more lube. Anal TrainingAnal training isnât just for the pros. In fact, itâs meant more for beginners than anyone else. If you want to be able to take a penis in the backside you may need to train your body to accept something of that size. This is where butt plugs become your friend. You can buy small butt plugs and then buy ones that get progressively larger until they are the size, or just slightly bigger, than your partner. When you use a sex toy, make sure itâs one thatâs meant for anal. It should have a flare base â this will ensure you donât suck the toy up into your leather cheerio. Trust me, you donât want to do that. Starting with something small can help get your butt used to having something in there at all. Itâs like stretching before a work out â you canât do a tree pose until you stretch out your legs. In the same vein, you have to stretch your butt too. As people start anal training theyâll often leave a butt plug in for many hours at a time, then continue this process for a few days. Once they feel theyâre able to easily receive that size plug, they go to a bigger size. Then itâs just rinse and repeat until theyâre at the size they want. Your butt wonât stay stretched out, so the principal training is to get your body adjusted to the feeling. You may also want to do training if you know youâre going to have anal sex later that night. You can start small and work your way up, but instead of doing it over days, you do it over a few hours. That way your body is ready when you and your partner are ready. Can it be messy ? Yes. Youâre doing stuff to the butt and thatâs where poop comes out of your body. If youâre not OK with possibly encountering poop, then donât try anal. You can do something to help reduce the likelihood of having a close encounter of the poop kind, like eating things that do not make you poop or constipate you. You should also stay away from spicy things for the day, and anything else that might give you the trots. Donât eat for a few hours before having anal sex, as you donât want to have anything in your belly when pushing on the back door. You can also give yourself an enema to clean out your insides, but donât eat after the enema as that will just refill your guts with food. Even with all this prep you still might encounter unsanitary results, so be prepared to clean up with a smile. Slow and LowNow that youâve managed to get a peen into your bean hole, donât go all crazy monkey sex. Slow is more likely to feel better, so take the time to find a place you like. Not all anal has to be on all fours â you can do it reverse cowgirl, lying on your side, or even in missionary. Whatever is the most comfortable to you is the etat du jour, but use lots of lube no matter what excellente etat très youâre in. Anal sex is something to work up to and can be a very satisfying sexual act, but itâs not for everyone. Not everyone likes anal sex, and this includes men and women. So if you give it the old college try and still find it to be lack luster, thatâs OK. Some people love it, some people hate it, and others just like to talk about butts. Wherever you fall on the butt-loving spectrum, itâs OK. Just use lots of lube ! 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